sweet “V” from 伊玲

There is a cute girl called 伊玲 at Lukas’ class asked Lukas what birthday present he wanted. Lukas replied “wii”.

Then her mum found out she drew a picture for Lukas. Her mum wanted to know why she drew two “V”s instead of maybe “L” (stands for Lukas) in the picture.

伊玲 replied “He said he likes V”

<< Hahaaa….such a cutie…>>

I was told by 伊玲’s mum that Lukas refused to accept the picture coz it wasn’t a real “wii”. Then 伊玲turned those Vs into flowers (the Vs are leaves) to  hide those “V” s (what a clever girl indeed). Lukas accepted the picture BUT he gave it to another class mate called Michael.

Lukas never told me this story until I saw the picture was displayed in Michael’s home.

Thank you 伊玲’s mum for telling me this cute story between them. A Big Thank You to 伊玲 who  drew such a beautiful picture for Lukas. I really wanted to take the picture home, unfortunately Lukas has given it to Michael, so I took photos of it to remember this sweet story.

用心的好父親

王品集團董事長戴勝益：我為何斷絕孩子的退路

作者：李翠卿　出處：親子天下

我的閱後感: “斷絕孩子財路”, 其實不難, 無論你多有錢也可做到,但當一個人在金錢上富裕時又能”清醒地”看生命價值和調節人生觀 [包括: priorities in life 例如:  (家庭/孩子) Vs (工作/讀書)] 實在是不容易. 特別是生活於紙醉金迷的城市裡! 若願意特意地”退後” 走進孩子的步伐和與孩子一同學習面對困難 (特別是父親對孩子的認同和鼓勵) , 實在不是人人皆能! 一位用心,懂得真愛和懂得尊重孩子的父親才能成功!

細閱文章王品集團董事長戴勝益：我為何斷絕孩子的退路內容, 可click 以下連線:

view.jsp?ID=17181

這篇文章令我想起Dick and Rick Hoyt的故事,雖然內容有所不同, 但同樣是一位用心的好父親:

[tube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ecwcq7FwHeY[/tube]

自然定律 – Law of Nature

可能因為Lukas 的學校今個月教”大自然”專題, 所以近來他問了很多有關自然界的問題!

上星期他跟我說他看到什麼是屬於大自然的,例如花草樹木,沙,海,天空等等……

Lukas “媽咪, 空氣都係屬於大自然既”

我 “點解呢?”

Lukas “因為空氣唔係人造的,所以屬於大自然”

我”哦~~~”

今天又問 “太婆既媽咪係咪死左架喇?”

我 “係呀”

Lukas “係咪因為佢好老,所以100歲就死左喇?”

我”係呀”

Lukas “咁我諗我係最遲死既一個, 因為全家我最細”

突然轉題目問 “媽咪, 今年係2010年,係咪?’

我 “係呀”

Lukas “咁下年係2011年, 之後就係2012年 ?”

我” 係呀”

Lukas “咁第一年係幾時開始架? 邊一年係第一年呀?”

我 “Jesus 出世個年係第一年囉~”

Lukas “係咪既係全部既第一年呀?”

我 “咁又唔係, Jesus 出世前叫公元前,即係 B.C, Jesus 出世後既年叫公元後,即A.D.”

都唔知Lukas 明唔明白我所講既,但佢又再問 “咁人死左之後幾耐先再出世架? ” (question about reincarnation)

我 “死左就死左架wor ~~”

Lukas “o下? 即係永遠死左? 冇得變番bb 再出世?”

我 “冇架, 我只聽過耶穌死左之後, 第三日復活咋 ”

Lukas “咁點解耶穌復活之後唔係變番bb 既?”

我 “我唔知wor..”

Lukas “咁人死左, 就永遠死左….好慘呀!” (question about eternity)

我 “其實都唔係好慘既,等我番到屋企慢慢解釋多d 比你知啦..” (當時我們行在路上,過馬路中)

一來Lukas 忘記了這個問題, 二來因為是哥哥姊姊的考試週,所以今晚還沒有機會和Lukas 討論這個生死問題~~哈哈!

I am a little thinker (相片嗚謝 Bee Studio 的 Season Yeung)

Lazy cheeky monkey

Lukas 有一個壞習慣, 就是很少會自動自覺的自已弄早餐吃 (因為他們的早餐不用火煮, 所以很安全, 都應該是自己動手安排), 很多時都要三催四請才動手! 兩日前, 我正在準備起床時, Lukas 走來我房間理直氣壯的說 “媽咪, 我食左早餐喇, 我食左toast ,我今次食得好乾淨,  一d crumbs都冇跌到呀!”

我蒙蒙查查的答道 “好呀, 咁乖呀!” 之後Lukas 很高興的走到廳中玩他的lego. 不知怎麼, 我的頭腦重覆又重覆的想著他剛剛說的那句話,好像有些不對勁的….冇錯喇….終於想到,心諗 “佢冇理由可以食得咁乾淨, 一d 都冇跌到落地下!!”

跟住我走出廳再問佢 “你係咪冇食到早餐? ”

Lukas “有呀,都話食左toast囉”

我 “咁你用完隻碟呢?” (唔好以為我只係會睇d crumbs 先知道你有冇食過)

Lukas “……. 咪係廚房囉….”

Vienna 搶著 “個隻碟係我用過架, Lukas 都冇食早餐”

所以最後都要迫佢自己整早餐食 ~~~ d 人真係可以懶到寧願唔食!

*************************************************************

幾日前Lukas 因為發燒所以要留在家中休息幾日, 幼稚園其實是沒有功課的, 但佢每天要寫一頁日記 (可用drawing 來表達的), 我聽到 Lukas 跟 Vienna 的對話:

Lukas “Vienna, 你可唔可以幫我寫日記呀?”

Vienna “你想點寫呀?”

Lukas 打開他的日記簿 “你係呢度寫啦, 但你要寫d字核突d呀, 唔可以寫到你果d咁靚架, 如果唔係, 老師知道係你幫我寫架.”

Vienna 爽快的答應了,  Vienna 在Lukas 的日記簿上寫上 “Lukas 發燒, 我們今天一起吃薯片” 和繪了一幅二人在吃薯片的圖.

Lukas 很放心地把日記簿放進書包內!

Lukas, 係咪蹺埋手唔使做呀?

Frog? Monkey?

昨天係public holiday, 所以有時間四處逛逛, 想找一張實用的床和書桌給Vienna. Zac 沒有跟我們一起因為他在同學家玩和留宿, 晚上會跟他的同學一家坐游艇看煙花. 那我們一行四人,有說有笑的週處逛逛. 很是輕鬆的!

路途中Lukas 發問 “媽咪, 係咪你切開個肚放我入去再生我出黎架?”

我 “唔係 ~~”

Lukas “咁我點入到去你個肚架?”

Vienna 滿有信心的搶著答 “係daddy 既 蝌蚪meet 媽咪既蛋蛋, 跟住咪變左個baby 囉 “  (Vienna 曾說過學校有教過這些)

Lukas 驚奇地說 “Daddy 係 frog?”

Vienna居然 很正經的答 “可能係”

Daddy 一邊駕車一邊聽在心裡,一直都沒有作聲, 怎料當我們路過猴子山時, 看見幾隻猴子在路邊, Daddy 反擊的說 “Lukas, here is the monkey mountain, we got you from here.”

Vienna 得意洋洋的加把口 “Yes, we have a moneky in the car.”

Lukas 不甘被Vienna 和 daddy 夾攻, 繼而說 “yes, the only monkey in the car is driving”

發皮氣

前日Lukas 因小事跟daddy 吵架

Lukas 入房發晒皮氣

Daddy 警告Lukas 說”你唔好發皮氣呀!!” (講中文)

Lukas “我冇 “fart 屁 氣” 呀!” (最近Lukas 好鐘意玩”字”)

Daddy ” fart, 屁, 氣” ?  個意思又幾岩 wor (make sense)

~~~ 跟住佢地兩個係度狂笑 ~~

Macau 澳門

Zac “媽咪，Macau 係咪好悶架？”

我”係呀，都幾悶架，冇咩玩，你都去過一次啦！＂

Vienna 接著補充＂Zac, 所以Macau 咪叫”Oh ! 悶＂ 囉！

****** Vienna, 你既中文真係好掂！********

Questions

放學回家途中, 我和Lukas 的對話如下:

Lukas "媽咪, 點解人老左之後唔會變番BB既?"

我 "因為人係會死架嘛, 所以每個人只係可以活一次, 你都要好好咁活呀."

Lukas "人係點出世架?"

我"人係媽咪個肚出世囉"

Lukas"點解唔係隻蛋出世既?"

我 "因為神造人唔係蛋出世囉, 有d動物係蛋出世, 例如雞,鴨, 有d動物 好似人咁出世,例如狗, 貓"

Lukas"咁我點出世架?"

我 "你咪係我個肚出世架囉"

Lukas "我應該係蛋出世架wor, 我以前係雞黎架嘛"  (佢仲係認為佢屬雞係因為佢出世時係隻雞,之後係醫院變做人)

我 "你唔係雞黎架"

Lukas "o下 ? 咁我係o物野呀 ?" (個樣好驚咁問)

我 "你咪係人囉, 唔係屬雞既人出世時係雞黎架,人出世時就係人"  (我既語氣唔耐煩, 因為以前都同佢解釋過呢個問題)

Lukas ..........(默默無聲繼續行路)

行到山腳, Lukas 又問:

Lukas "媽咪, 全部數最大既數係咩呀? "

我 "最大既數可以去到好大好遠架wor , 係無限呀"

Lukas "咁"無限"之後既數又係咩呀?"(佢以為"無限" 係一個數既稱號)

我 "無限囉"

Lukas "o下? "無限" 之後又係"無限" ??"

我 "係呀 ~~~"

Lukas "咁多個無限既? 好搞笑呀 (之後一路大笑一路跑番屋企)

Zachary and Vienna the entrepreneurs for good

I  found out Zac and Vienna had been doing a favour for me secretly in the past week.

I saw they were very busy at making origami during their exam period and I wondered what they were for.

They made heaps…heaps of shirts. Vienna made the shirts with different collars and she even put a paper tie on some of them. The shirts Zac made were soccer shirts (he copied the logos and words from his Match Attack cards). His cool idea came from the World Cup season (great approach Zac – in a marketing sense!).

Vienna said “we are going to sell these shirts to our classmates”

I “what? I don’t think anyone will buy them.”

Vienna “yes, someone in my class said he will pay $1 for the shirt”

I “Huh ?! I think it is not nice to do that, this paper shirt isn’t worth $1″

Zac “mum, we want to sell these to support your trip to Japan”

I “Wow…thank you so much for both of you, it is very nice of doing this for me, but I still think it isn’t that nice to get your friends’ money in this way.”

Vienna “But he said he wanted to buy the shirt!”

** Anyway, so far I haven’t received any “support” from Zac or Vienna from selling the shirts, but I was impressed by their idea and efforts. **

Vienna told me today that she forgot to bring the shirts to school and her friends forgot to bring the money either…hahahaha…

Of course I am not expecting to get any money from kids but I treasure their hearts for me.

These are the samples of the shirts Zac made. These two are tailor- made for his class teacher Miss Ko (with her favour players’ names on)….LOL…

藝術

Lukas 一邊吃午餐, 一邊週圍望, 好不專心地吃他的午餐!

突然問我 “媽咪, 地下係咪藝術呀?”

我 “咩藝術呀? 地下點樣藝術法呀?”

Lukas 一邊指著地板上的木紋一邊說 “你睇下, 地下有一條條既紋, 有d大條, 有d 細條, 係藝術呀!”

我 “呵 ~~ 係wor..有patterns 架wor..又真係幾藝術wor ” (我要扮到好識咩係藝術咁講…嘻嘻)

Lukas 覺得我很讚成他的想法的樣子, 沾沾自喜地又說 : “媽咪, 我隻腳跌親呀, 我要plasters 呀!” (佢前日上學途中跑得太快而跌到, 流血)

我 ” 咁你貼plasters 喇~~”

我看見他取了四片plasters 出來, 我就說 “咁細個傷口, 使唔使四片咁多呀? 兩片就得啦~~”

Lukas “我要四片呀, 藝術呀, 你睇下” (一邊把四片plasters 貼上Knees 上成為兩個十字)

Lukas 續繼說 “Cross 呀, Jesus 既cross 呀, 我用兩種唔同既plasters, 係咪好藝術呀?” (咦~~睇真d, 原來佢真係用左兩隻唔同牌子和質地既plasters 呀)

[我心諗, 跌親o姐, 使唔使咁"藝術"呀, 一盒plaster 都未用完就開另一盒, 而家兩盒都開晒, 就係為左整個"藝術" knees]

我心雖然咁諗, 但我個口就對Lukas 說 “係wor…好”藝術” 呀 ~~” (係咪好假 ~~嘻嘻)

Anyway, 吃完午餐後, Lukas 穿上短褲, 好神氣的用他那對”藝術的” 腿走路上學去! 還一邊走路一邊指指週圍的環境說 :

“媽咪, 你睇下呢棵樹, 藝術呀…佢有唔同既根, 樹葉同紋架!”

“媽咪, 個地下都係藝術呀, d 一粒粒唔同型狀架”

我”呢d一粒粒係石仔…”

我們的一路上都在談”藝術”直到回校….. 原來呢個世界真係好藝術架!

感謝神創造一個美妙的大自然…一個充滿藝術氣質的大自然!

The most creative one in our family

Vienna is a very creative person and therefore she does lots of “strange” things…got photos this time.

She even taught Lukas how to hold colour pencils the way she does

Turning her mole into a bright sun…hahaha..

This is the way she holds colour pencils (She chooses the colours she needs on a particular picture).

Lukas is taught to do the same.

Choosing and swapping the pencils smoothly and comfortably. Roll over back and forth.

Done and keep drawing.

<<Case 1>>

話說上星期Lukas 好想玩Zac 既 tops (而家很多小學生都有呢個玩意), 一清早我就聽到Lukas既哭聲, 原來因為Zac 唔借比佢玩!

Lukas “比我玩啦 ~~~” (夾著悽厲既哭聲)
Zac “唔比 !” (實牙實齒的說)
Lukas “Zac, 你個衰人呀, 比我玩下啦~~” (哭得更厲害)
Zac “係我買既, 你唔可以玩!”

因為Lukas 的哭聲實在太吵耳 (還要在早上7時多….),所以我打算起床”插手”,但聽到局勢突然轉變, 所以還是留在床上”靜聽其變”.

Lukas 突然停止哭聲, 好溫柔的對Zac 說 “Zac, 你好乖架, 你係一個好乖既小朋友, 你都唔想我唔開心架, 你比我玩你既tops 啦 ~~”
Lukas 沒想到換來的答案又是”唔得” 呢兩個字!! (真可憐…哈哈)

所以佢唯有自已靜靜的看書去 ~~~~

_______________________________________________________________

<<Case 2>>

上學前,

Lukas 問我”媽咪,我想玩wii 呀?”
我 “唔得,今日唔係星期六wor..” (我家星期六才可以玩wii 的)
Lukas “點解呀?”
我 “我都話今日唔係星期六囉, 星期六先玩得架嘛, 你知呢個rule 架!”
Lukas “但我想做咪做囉!”
我 “唔係想做就做架!”
Lukas “係想做就做, 我話想做就做”
我 “唔得!”
Lukas “媽咪, 你係一個好聰明既人黎架, 你應該知道人應該想做就做架!!!” (嘩!!!! 呀仔, 咁仲成世界既~~~)

最後當然Lukas 都唔可以”想做就做” 啦 ~~~ (大膽得佢呀)

三個選擇 ~~咩心態呢?

幾日前Zac 向我投訴

Zac “媽咪, XXX同學係學校成日想除我條褲呀!!!”

我 “點解呀? 係咪玩咋”

Zac “佢小息時成日玩到好顛時, 成日pull 我條褲呀, 會跌架嘛”

Vienna 覺得呢d實在係小事, 無奈地快快既提意 “咪用belt 囉!”

Lukas 又提意”Zac, 跌左落黎咪著番囉, 跌左,著番, 跌左, 著番….”

Zac 好似唔係咁滿意佢地既提意, 咁唯有我都提意下啦..(daddy唔係屋企,如果唔係佢一定都會比下意見)

我 “咁唯有你著條靚d既底褲囉, 等真係條校褲跌左落黎, 都有條靚底褲比d同學睇下嘛!”

點知Zac 用雄壯的聲音”好” 的一聲接納我既提意!

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm 呢個係咩心態呢?!

全世界邊隻昆蟲壽命最短?

話說幾天前我帶著他們三個,放學如常步行回家, 途經見到一隻大蝴蝶腳上帶著一隻細蝴蝶在花叢內飛舞著,因為我們都是第一次見到蝴蝶媽媽 (小朋友猜想是媽媽)拖著她的baby 來飛, 還飛了很久,所以我們站著看牠們一陣才續繼走路, 就是因為這兩隻蝴蝶引起他們三人的對話, 也引起我的好奇心…

我”你地睇下隻蝴蝶媽媽同佢既baby幾開心,幾好玩!”

Zac “但佢地會好快死架喇!”

我 “o下? 好快死? 你想打死佢地呀? ”

Zac “唔係,你知唔知蝴蝶既壽命只得1 week 至1 month 架咋?”

我 “係? 係咪真架? 我冇聽過既? o物 佢地咁短命既咩?” (心諗,如果係真既, 我覺得個隻媽媽和baby很可憐呀)

跟著Vienna 好似肚有墨圈的問 “你地知唔知全世界邊隻昆蟲壽命最短?”

我 “唔知wor, 係邊隻昆蟲呀?

Vienna “係蟑螂呀, 因為d人一見到佢地就踩死佢地架! ” (0下 ~~~咁都係答案)

Lukas “唔係蟑螂呀, 係螞蟻呀, 因為d人見唔到佢地都會踩死佢地架!”

Lets go and discover the nature....(pic from Palm Island Resort)

大屎口

話說Lukas 幼稚園希望每一位同學都回家可以跟家長寫 15 張揮春 (一班15人), 然後放進利是封內,待放新年假期前派給班中的同學! 其實已是上星期的通告, 但我老是又忙又忘, 所以遲遲還未教Lukas 寫!

但今早 Lukas 再三提醒我要寫揮春帶回學校, 我們的對話如下:

Lukas “媽咪, 我想你而家教我寫揮春呀”

我”好啦, 就而家寫啦, 咁你想寫咩呀?”

Lukas “我想寫大”屎”囗呀 ~~”

我 “o下? 大”屎” 口? 咩大”屎” 口呀?”

Lukas 跟著走到Vienna 的房拿了Vienna 早前寫的一張揮春, 指著給我看說 “大屎口呀 !!”

*** Vienna 寫那張揮春是 “大吉” 呢兩個字 ****

然而Lukas 把個”吉”字分開兩個字讀 —> 士,口 …..

所以他把”大吉” 讀為 (大, 士,口) …但最衰係佢讀個 “士” 字是 “屎”音….

好啦, 最後搞清楚佢係要寫 “大吉” 呢兩個字, 但我發覺我買的揮春紙唔夠大, 所以要切成細細張才可以寫15張.

我 “Lukas,唔夠大wor…不如我地唔好寫大吉兩個字啦, 淨係寫個”吉” 字就算啦~~”

Lukas 理直氣壯的說 ” 唔夠大, 咪寫”細吉”囉 !”

****我無言啦 , 唯有寫大吉囉 ******