Tuesday, November 27, 2012

多謝

昨晚我在做Zac 的portfolio 時,Zac走來跟我說"媽咪,多謝你幫我做portfolio 呀"

我"Ok 啦,個個家長都會幫佢地d小朋友做嘅,不過真係好多嘢要做"

Zac "媽咪,你留番一頁比我寫嘢吖,我想寫我嘅父母點樣係我學習上幫助我,support 我呀。"

我"唔好掛...唔好搞d肉麻嘢好喎"

Zac "但學校知道我有supportive family, 可能會加分㗎喎!"

我"唔使喇,唔使搞d咁嘅嘢啦"

Zac "哦.."

***但好開心呢幾日Zac同我講左幾次多謝***

Saturday, November 24, 2012

which one

After picking up Vienna from school today, she talked to me in the car: 

Vienna " mum, I want to tell you something, but can you promise not to scold me? "

Me" Hmmm.. I will if you do something like stealing!"

Vienna " Ok... I am not going to tell you then"

Me " OK, come on .. Tell me what it is"

*** Then Vienna told me the story*****

Vienna " mum, can you not tell dad?"

Me " Well, I got to tell him coz he needs to know it"

Vienna .....( silent)

**** Then when our family had time to sit down before going out for dinner tonight, I told Karl the issue****

Me " Karl, I need to tell you something but hope you won't get angry "

Daddy "ok"

Me " Vienna told me that she used your shaver to shave her leg the other day"

Daddy covered his face with his hands " oh... no.. so which one then ?"

Vienna lifted up her left leg and said " this one "

Daddy " not which leg, which shaver ... the electric one or the blade one?"

Vienna " the blade one coz if I used the electric one, there was sound, so you would find out"

*** Yes, I felt sorry for Karl coz he might have used the shaver after Vienna's turn but this cracks me up ( So I turned around and giggled)

One more thing, I am glad that Vienna still told us the truth even she thought she could be punished. I think the best way to feel peaceful is by removing the guilt inside us by telling the truth ***

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

hand painting

See whom I bumped into at HKIEd. I remember she was just a little girl (maybe 3 yrs old) when my colleague took her to work. Time flies..! Vienna really loves the drawing her daughter did on her hand.


Monday, November 19, 2012

故事創作

剛看到Lukas 的一本在幼稚園時的故事創作,每一頁也有字有圖,但看了三次也不是太明白:
P.1 好人來壞人的基地打架。

P.2 壞人不知道好人想不想打架,所以藏起來。

P.3 他們開始打架。

P.4 好人追著壞人,壞人斷了手。

P.5 好人打死了壞人。

P.6 有其他壞人打好人了。

P.7 好人打壞人後,遇到個好人。

P.8 新的好人告訴好人如何打架。

P.9 他們發現了一個新朋友。

P.10 還有他的孩子。

P.11 新朋友被壞人殺死了。

P.12 突然,有很多壞人來到。

P.13 好人打敗了壞人。

P.14 Yeah we win !
~~~~完~~~






Friday, November 16, 2012

下?

今天有位agent 給我電話:

我接電話" Hello"

Agent " Hello, is Lukas' mami here?"

Me " 係呀,我係呀,你係邊位呢?"

Agent "呵~~我係xxx ( agency's name) 嘅 A (his name) , 我個客想搵你最細個個小朋友拍一個TVC呀,想check 下佢嘅期得唔得。同埋佢而家幾多歲呢?"

我"佢剛剛七歲,不過佢嘅 size 都係六歲咁,佢116 cm 高咋"

Agent"岩喇...岩喇..就係要搵呢個歳數,咁佢12月得唔得呀?要拍兩日嘅,一日九個鐘係TVC,之後有另一日四個鐘係print 黎嘅!但個客話一定要請假喎~~"

我"咁就唔得喇,因為佢已經讀小一,返全日,以前幼稚園半日都可以多d時間拍,而家唔接咁多喇,除非係星期六或星期日下午,都可以嘅!佢十二月都要考試呀!」

Agent "時間有得傾嘅,通常都會推遲多過提早嘅,咁你個女幾時考試呀?"

我"我個女好高大㗎喎,成一百三十幾cm嘅喎,啱唔啱㗎?"

Agent "唔係喎,你又話七歲嘅?"

我"七歲個個係我嘅仔黎㗎,我有三個小朋友,男女男,呀哥十二歲,個女九歲,細仔剛剛七歲,Lukas係男仔名黎嘛"

Agent "下?佢係男仔黎嘅咩?"

我忍唔住笑左"係呀"

Agent "呵~~~sorry 呀,咁下次有岩嘅job 再搵你喇"

我"好啦,唔該晒,你比你個email 我,等我send 我嘅「仔」Lukas 嘅近照比你睇下啦」

Agent "要喇...要喇"

***呀仔,對唔住呀,可能我之前錯手寄左d唔應該寄嘅相比agent 呀,你原諒我啦~~~***















Thursday, November 15, 2012

生果金


晩飯閑談:
Zac 「媽咪,你讚唔讚成有"生果金"呀?」

我「老人家收果d生果金?」

Zac 「係呀」

我「讚成,老人家做唔到嘢,比d生果金佢,等佢地有d錢用嘛」

Zac「我唔讚成喎」

我「點解嘅?」

Zac「因為佢地d仔女有責任照顧佢地㗎嘛,唔應該政府照顧囉」

我「咁可能佢地冇仔女,又或者佢地d仔女唔願意養佢地哩~~」

Zac「冇仔女可以拿生果金,但有仔女就唔應該囉,佢d仔女唔比錢佢,係佢d仔女有問題囉」

我「咁你大個左會唔會照顧我同daddy㗎?比錢我地生活㗎?」

Zac「會,梗係會啦」(實在令我感動)

我「咁你可能要搵份好工先有錢比我同daddy喎」

Zac「我知,我大個想做足球員」

Vienna 駁入「Zac, 如果你做足球員,可能你要做兩份工喎,因為你又唔係踢得好叻,好出名個d足球員先會有好多錢,你應該唔得㗎喇」(Zac 怒視著Vienna~~~)

我「Vienna, 咁你大個又想做咩工作呀?」

Vienna 「我想做scientist, 因為我鍾意做experiments 」(咁呢樣嘢,睇你間房d擺設都知嘅)

Vienna 「Lukas, 咁你呢?」

Lukas 一邊吃雞腿一邊說「我想做racing car driver」

我「呢個都好難㗎喎,唔係你話做就做,要叻,人地揀你參賽先得㗎喎」

Lukas 「咁吖~~~我揀做賊啦,但我唔會偷錢嘅,我會偷iPads,因為會多d錢同有得玩」

我們全部目視Lukas ,Vienna 正氣的搭著Lukas的肩膀說「你唔使做賊嘅,你搵份工,夠錢比媽咪daddy,又夠錢買iPad,仲唔使坐監,咪得囉」

Lukas 繼續吃他的雞腿,同時乖乖的點頭「唔!」的一聲!

****給錢養我不重要,最重要是不要犯法啊***




Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Nerf Gun

昨天老師笑著跟我說:
Lukas 提意我去Toys R Us買支Nerf Gun 比佢作為生日禮物。但我話太貴(五佰多元),沒有零用錢買給他,點知Lukas又介紹支價錢平d嘅比我。最後我話住得遠,好難去Toys R Us 買。

**Lukas, 你唔好去搶...真係難為了老師! ***

** 感謝老師請Lukas吃雪糕慶生,真係so sweet 呀**




Tuesday, November 06, 2012

prayers

今日放學後在canteen 吃晩餐時的對話:
Lukas 「媽咪,我地班咪有個小朋友隻腳有個𣕧嘅,佢運動會參加跑100米呀」

我「咁佢跑唔跑到㗎?」

Lukas 「應該超慢囉。你會唔會幫佢pray 㗎?」

我「er.......會嘅...」(其實我真的沒有想過為這個小朋友禱告,所以很猶豫的回答)

我「咁點樣pray 呀?pray d 咩呢?」

Lukas 「我想佢可以攞第一,第二或者第三呀」

我「咁其實真係幾難㗎喎。不如你特登(即特意)輸比佢啦」

Lukas 「我就算特登輸比佢,仲有其他人比賽架嘛」

我「咁不如靜靜地叫埋其他小朋友一齊特登輸比佢吖?」

Lukas 「應該唔會㗎喇,仲有P2 嘅學生,我都唔識佢地。如果只係我特登輸比佢,咁我應該會係跑最尾個個囉」

那我特意給他一條衝擊問題「咁其實真係好難㗎喎,祈左禱佢都應該唔會攞獎㗎喎,咁唔使祈禱啦,係咪?」(actually this part gave me some spiritual thoughts... Should we pray according to the potential/ possibility of the outcome we think of or base on what if not...what is prayer? )

Lukas 「梗係唔係啦 ,咁我地可以pray佢跑時唔好跌倒,唔好整親隻腳㗎嘛!」

我「係喎!你真係好識得祈禱同關心人喎,好乖喎!」

**Lukas 點頭示意後,繼續吃他的麵**

** Also it is time for me to think about WHAT prayers really mean, WHY do I need to pray, WHOM do I pray for...etc***

Sunday, November 04, 2012

咁就乖喇~

Lukas 剛洗完澡:
Lukas 「媽咪,我地班有一個同學隻腳有個𣕧,好似石膏咁,但唔係石膏黎嘅. 佢跑得好慢,所以小息唔係咁多人同佢玩,所以我特登(特意)小息坐低同佢傾計」

我「咁你同佢傾d咩呀?」

Lukas 「我講d笑話引佢笑囉」

我「咁佢點笑呀?」

Lukas「咪正常笑囉,佢又唔係個口有事,隻腳有事之嘛!」

我「係嘅~~係嘅」

Lukas 「我想請佢黎我嘅生日會呀,好唔好呀?」

我正想回應,Zac剛經過說「咁就乖喇~~」

***Zac 通常路經Lukas 都會係嚇下佢或嘲弄下佢,今次比較「正面」對待弟弟,讚!****

Saturday, November 03, 2012

有勇氣的眼淚

昨天一位學生分享她的內心掙扎:
事因她是part time 大學生,不能請交通優惠,但同學們也教她可以虛填一些資料,很容易便請成功,之後可以改回正確資料,不少人也這樣成功申請到優惠 。

她內心掙扎的想:我很想要優惠,但若這樣做,就等於詐騙,不但詐騙了學校,還詐騙了整個制度。神是不喜悅我這樣做,衪是會供應我所需的。(所以她最後沒有請,內心也充滿了平安。)

她一邊說出她的掙扎,眼涙一邊流出來,我給她一個擁抱和告訴她的決定是正確的。

她流涙,因為在掙扎中排除別人的譏笑(死蠢;有著數都唔識攞;扮清高砑?..等等) 是一件很不容易的事,特別在一個拜金主義的社會裏。但她的涙也帶著喜樂,釋放,平安和交托。

我們可以多多為有這樣堅持的年青人打氣( 若果你讚同這樣的情操),給予讚賞和鼓勵,因為年青一代會是我們社會的未來棟樑,他們的價值塑造(人格或工作方面)將會大大影響我們將來的社會。

" More potently than by any other means, change the university and you will change the world"
By Charles Habib Malik
( former Secretary General of the United Nation)

多願香港政界人仕有勇氣流這樣的眼淚!






Thursday, November 01, 2012

放棄唔追問

我「Lukas, 學校旅行個日,見到你d同學同老師都好friend 喎..d同學都好鍾意個老師,佢地成群人hug hug 個老師,幾開心喎...」

Lukas 「有個同學開心又hug,唔開心又hug 老師㗎喇」

我「係?!咁你有冇hug 過老師呀?」

Lukas 「點解要咁做先?」

我「冇...問下啫,咁你有冇先?」

Lukas 「冇喎,我淨係hug 我d朋友啫」

我追問「㸃解唔hug 老師嘅?」

Lukas 「咁有咩問題先?」

***我好怕人唔直接回答問題,我放棄唔追問!!!!!!! ****