Saturday, October 27, 2012

Why girls' time is good and important?

Why girls' time is good and important?
(cut and pasted from the net).

In an evening class at Stanford University the last lecture was on the mind-body connection - the relationship between stress and disease. The speaker (head of psychiat
ry at Stanford) said, among other things, that one of the best things that a man could do for his health is to be married to a woman whereas for a woman, one of the best things she could do for her health was to nurture her relationships with her girlfriends.

At first everyone laughed, but he was serious. Women connect with each other differently and provide support systems that help each other to deal with stress and difficult life experiences.

Physically, this quality time with girlfriends helps to create more serotonin - a neurotransmitter that helps combat depression and can create a general feeling of well-being {it’s the feel good hormone}. You know that amazing feeling you have after a great sweat session? You can partially thank serotonin for that too!

In general, women tend to share feelings whereas men often form relationships around activities. We share from our souls with our sisters/mothers and evidently that is very GOOD for our health.

He said that spending time with a friend is just as important to our general health as going for a run or working out at the gym. There's a tendency to think that when we are exercising we are doing something good for our bodies, but when we are hanging out with friends, we are wasting our time and should be more productively engaged—not true.

In fact, he said that failure to create and maintain quality personal relationships with other humans is as dangerous to our physical health as smoking! So every time you hang out with a girlfriend, just pat yourself on the back and congratulate yourself for doing something good for your health!

Let’s toast to our friendship with our girlfriends. Evidently it's very good for our health.
 


Friday, October 26, 2012

mufti day

Today is the mufti day at the boys' school , when we were talking about what Lukas is going to wear yesterday: 

Me " what are you going to wear on the mufti day Lukas? We have Ninja Turtle, Buzz Lightyear, sheep, pirate or maybe you can w
ear a princess dress? Hahaha.. "

Lukas" I am just going to wear underpants!"

Me " huh? You need to dress up to be like someone like spiderman, superman.. Something like that!"

Lukas" yea.. I am going to be Tarzan (泰山)"

Vienna " but your underpants are too small to be look like Tarzan's"

Lukas" I can wear dad's " (@.@!)

** of course I won't let my boy be Tarzan in a cold day and don't want the class photo with checkers on him ( 打格仔)***

So, he finally dressed as Buzz Lightyear on the mufti day.

Have fun at school my little Buzz.






Wednesday, October 24, 2012

電車

今晚去北角聽有關青少年健康成長的一個講座,剛剛紅燈位係Quarry Bay 見到部電車係隔離:

我「唔該,請問邊部電車去北角㗎?」

司機「呢邊部部都得㗎」

我「哦,咁我可唔可以上你呢部呀?」

司機「可以」

見司機答完"可以"但仲未開門,所以我報以甜甜笑容,望著司機,希望佢快d開門比我上車,點知我甜甜的望著他,但他呆呆的望著我。之後我覺得有點奇怪,所以我轉為呆呆的望回他,最後司機忍奈不住,用手指著後方....噢!是的...電車是在尾部上車,前部落車的....:P

上車後立即開車,原來我們對望的時間剛剛是整個紅燈的時間...

仲有,坐電車是落車才付費的..嘻嘻!

呀仔,我為左你青少年成長,瘀爆都無所謂...

****不要誤會,我不是第一次坐電車,只是極少坐而已,大鄉里出城嘛***

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Where is the power come from?

One day a friend of mine asked me on WhatsApp "我成日都想請教你,人人都得24小時,你點可以兼顧咁多野!?"( translated: how can you manage so many things as everyone has 24 hours?)

My answer is " Priorities ... I believe He strengthens me to do all things He guides me to do. I love the ministry I am working at.

My passion is following my vision given by God based on His calling to me."

The following bible verse is the secret that I trust.

"Glory to God, who is able to do far beyond all that we could ask or imagine by his power at work within us; (Ephesians 3:20 )"

What is your passion in life my friends? Listen to your heart and follow your passion, priorities will naturally followed.






Tuesday, October 16, 2012

同路人


昨天和朋友談到友誼與內心世界等等話題。其實我們每個人也有內心爭扎的時候,一些內心的重擔(例如:自私,自大,自卑,軟弱,貪婪,妒忌,鬥爭,寛恕,害怕,失敗,失落,空虛,疑惑甚至情慾等等)令到我們情緒和心理上感覺迷失,似要面對這些,但又沒有能力或勇氣去面對,爭扎日積月纍...內心不自由又沈重...那怎會有喜樂呢?

我們除了需要一位洞悉我們需要的神外,生命歷程上還需要一位同路人,一個「以愛心說誠實話」的同行者來洞察我們的內心世界,願意與我們分析分擔我們的內心爭札。誠實面對自己的爭札,已致靠著主的力量改變自己。

你身邊有同行者嗎?

膏油和香料使人心暢快,朋友真誠的勸勉也使人覺得甘甜。 (箴言 27:9 )

你們各人的重擔要互相擔當,這樣就成全了基督的律法。 (加拉太書 6:2 )

看哪!你喜愛的是內心的誠實;在我內心的隱密處,你使我得智慧。 (詩篇 51:6 )



日記後評語

剛看到Zac的中文日記簿功課...紅字老師看日記後評語,鉛筆為Zac 的回應。

Friday, October 12, 2012

pillow

Oh my goodness, found out this while I was putting the kids to bed!!!! Vienna drew on her pillow then she found this Snow White is so scary to sleep with, so she cut it up and threw it to the rubbish bin. 呀女,你想點呀...自已嚇自已,仲要驚到剪難掉左!Halloween 都唔使咁㗎!


Tuesday, October 09, 2012

today's quiet time

My thought on today's quiet time: 
我們大多都認同「知足常樂」,問題是我們有真正的「足」嗎?物質的「足」不能使心靈「常樂」,心靈仍是空虛。真正心靈「滿足」的來源來自你認識它的供應者。願你能找到滿足的泉源。
「我的神必照他在基督耶穌裡榮耀的豐富,滿足你們的一切需要。」 (Philippians 腓立比書 4:19)


Sunday, October 07, 2012

Lukas " Look mum!"
我"叫你幫手摺衫啫,係都要玩"
Zac "咦Lukas, 咁著daddy 條褲,唔嗅咩?"

Lukas 立即除下

結局:係咪呢,自己除極都除唔到,最後要哥哥姊姊幫手才成功脫下。睇你下次仲敢唔敢玩呢個!